Nasha Chor Boyfriend Se Shadi Karni Hai Ke Nahin
Kisi ke saath rishta qayam karne se pehle uske baare mein poori jaankari hona zaruri hai. Agar aapke boyfriend ne pehle nasha kiya tha aur ab usne iska intizaam kiya hai, to aapko kya karna chahiye?
Mujhe ek larka pasand hai jo pehle nasha karta tha, ab mere liye kam kar diya hai. Lekin mujhe dar hai ke kahin woh dobara nasha na karne lage aur meri dawaiyon ka kya hoga. Kya main us se shadi kar loon?
Aapka sawal bohat ahem hai aur is mein do alag alag cheezein hain jo aap ko sochni chahiye: aapka apna mental health aur dawai, aur us larke ka nasha chhorne ka safar. Pehle yeh samajh lein ke kisi ke liye nasha chhodna ek bahut badi baat hai, lekin relapse ka dar hamesha rehta hai. Aap ka apna dawai ka silsila bhi hai, jo aap ki stability ke liye zaroori hai. Is faisle mein jaldi na karein, aur apne aap ko pehle rakhein.
Pehle apni dawai aur mental health
Aapne dawai ka zikar kiya — agar aap depression ya kisi aur cheez ke liye dawai le rahi hain, to aap ka apna environment aur partner ka support bahut matter karta hai. Agar woh dobara nasha karne lage, to aap ka stress barh sakta hai, jo aap ki dawai aur mental health ko affect kar sakta hai. Yeh sochna sahi hai. Isliye pehle apne doctor ya therapist se baat karein ke aap ke liye kya safe rahega. Aap ki dawai ka koi interaction nasha ke saath ho sakta hai? Yeh aap ko pata hona chahiye. Aur agar aap shadi karein to kya aap ka partner aap ki dawai aur treatment ko samjhega aur respect karega?
Us larke ke nasha chhorne ka haqeeqat
Woh aap ke liye nasha kam kar raha hai — yeh achhi baat hai, lekin yeh kafi nahi. Kisi ke liye nasha chhodna ek personal decision hota hai, na ke kisi aur ke liye. Agar woh sirf aap ki khushi ke liye kar raha hai, to yeh zyada stable nahi hota. Aap ko dekhna hoga ke woh apni marzi se recovery mein hai ya nahi. Kya woh kisi professional se help le raha hai? Kya us ka koi support system hai? Agar woh relapse karega, to aap us se kaise deal karengi? Yeh sawaal khud se poochhna zaroori hai.
Shadi se pehle kya karein
- Baith ke baat karein: Us se khul kar poochhein ke nasha chhorne ke baad uska kya plan hai, aur agar dobara shuru ho jaye to woh kya karega. Aap apni dawai aur mental health ke baare mein bhi bata dein.
- Time lein: Kisi bhi shadi ka faisla jaldi mat karein. Dekhein ke woh kam se kam 6-12 mahine nasha se door rahe, aur aap apni dawai ke saath stable rahein.
- Family aur logon ka pressure: Pakistan mein "log kya kahenge" ka darr hota hai, lekin aap ki apni sehat pehle hai. Agar aap ko lagta hai ke yeh rishta aap ko nuksan de sakta hai, to mana karna bhi bahaduri hai.
Yeh faisla aap ka apna hai, lekin apni dawai aur mental health ko kabhi ignore na karein. Agar aap ko aur baat karni ho, Zara yahan hai.
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