Doston ki baat par naraz hone ke liye ghabrahat ho rahi hai
Doston ke saath kehte hue jo baat apni parivar ko bhi batayi, uske baad unka rona nazar aata hai. School jaate hue ghabrahat ho rahi hai ke kya hoga.
Maine apni ammi ko bataya ke ek classmate mere saath kuch kar rahi thi, ab woh naraz hai ke maine ammi ko bich mein kyun laaya. Aaj school jaate hue bohot ghabrahat ho rahi hai, pata nahi kya hoga.
Aapne kuch galat nahi kiya. Classmate ke saath jo ho raha tha, usse ammi ko batana sahi tha — yeh aapki himmat thi, aur ammi ka naraz hona iska matlab nahi ke aapko chup rehna chahiye tha. Woh shayad isliye aise react kar rahi hain kyunki unhe laga ke aapne unhe beech mein laaya, ya woh khud pareshan hain. Aur ghabrahat bilkul samajh aa rahi hai — school jaate hue dil ka dhadakna, "kya hoga" ka khayal — yeh aapke upar bohat zyada hai.
School mein aaj ek kaam kijiye: apne aap ko chhote chhote kaamon mein laga lijiye. Bag sambhalna, seat tak jaana, pehla period — bas ek waqt mein ek kaam. Agar ghabrahat zyada lage toh ek do lambi saans lein, ya washroom jaake thora paani laga lein. Aur agar classmate wapas kuch kare, toh turant teacher ko bata dena — yeh aapka haq hai.
Ammi se baad mein pooch sakti hain ke woh naraz kyun hain. Ho sakta hai unhe laga ke aapne kuch chhupaya hai, ya woh khud dar gayi hain. Aap keh sakti hain: "Maine aapko isliye bataya kyunki mujhe aap par bharosa hai." Yeh sunkar woh naram ho sakti hain. Aur agar nahi bhi hoti hain, toh yeh yaad rakhna — ammi ka gussa aap se pyar nahi hona, woh sirf confuse hain.
Aap is mein akeli nahi hain. Zara bhi yahan hai, jab bhi baat karni ho, kisi bhi waqt. Aur yeh din bhi guzar jayega — dheere dheere, inshallah.
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