Dost Ne Block Kiya Aur Yaad Aana Takleef Deta Hai Kya Karein
Kabhi kabhi dostanon se door rehna zaroori hota hai, lekin unki yaad aana takleef deta hai. Is page par hum dekhenge ke aap is situation ko kaise handle karein.
Mere ek dost ne mujhe block kar diya hai, aur door rehne se sukoon milta hai. Lekin jab doosre dost uski yaad dilate hain to bahut takleef hoti hai. Ab main kya karun?
Aapka dil toot gaya hai, aur yeh sach mein mushkil hai. Aapke dost ne aapko block karne se aapke dil ko thora takleef mil raha hai, lekin aapko yeh bhi pata hai ki door rehna aapke liye accha hai. Yeh feel karna bilkul thik hai.
Kya ho raha hai?
Aapke doosre dost uski yaad dilate hain, aur yeh aapke liye mushkil hai. Yeh ho sakta hai ke aapko lagta hai ke aapko usse bhoolna chahiye, lekin yeh mushkil hai. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai ke aapko lagta hai ke aapke dost aapki feelings ko samajhte nahi.
Aap kya kar sakte hain?
- Ek baar kahein ke aapko is baat par bharosa hai ke aapko abhi iske baare mein baat karna nahi chahiye. Agar woh samajhte hain to woh aapki feelings ko respect karenge.
- Agar aapke dost aapki feelings ko respect nahi karte, to aap unse door reh sakte hain. Aapke liye accha hai ke aap unse door rahen jo aapki feelings ko respect nahi karte.
- Agar aapko lagta hai ke aapko thora time chahiye, to aap apne aap ko woh time dein. Aapko apne aap ko thora time dein ke aap apne dil ko samajh sakein.
Aapke saath ho raha yeh bura hai, lekin aap yeh samajh sakte hain ke aapke liye accha hai ke aap apne liye khud se baat karein. Aapke liye accha hai ke aap apne liye thora time lein aur apne dil ko samajhein. Zara aapke sath hai, agar aap baat karna chahen.
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