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Dost mujhe akela chhod deti hai - kya message karun?

Answered 7 October 2026 at 8:24 pm PKT

Aap ki friend aapko akela chhod kar apni aur doston ke saath zyada waqt bita rahi hai. Yeh aapko tang kar sakta hai, aur hum yahan batayenge ke aap apne feelings kaise share kar sakte hain.

Meri ek friend hai jo apni aur doston ke saath zyada rehti hai aur mujhe akela chhod deti hai. Ab main kya karun? Kya usse apne feelings ke baare mein message karun?

Bilkul, aapko apni friend ko apne feelings batane chahiye. Yeh sach mein mushkil hai jab koi dost door hota hai. Message karna behtar hai kyunki aap khul kar likh sakte hain. Lekin us tarah likhein ke aap blame nahi kar rahe, balke apne dil ki baat share kar rahe hain.

Kaisa message likhein?

  • "Dost, maine dekha hai ke tum ab apne aur doston ke saath zyada rehti ho. Mujhe akelapan mehsoos hota hai. Kya hum dono ke liye kuch waqt nikaal sakte hain?"
  • Yeh simple aur seedha hai. Aap keh rahe hain ke uske kaam se aapko takleef hai, lekin aap uske saath waqt bhi chahte hain. Is tarah blame nahi lagta.

Kya ho sakta hai?

  • Ho sakta hai woh is baat se anjaan ho. Shayed woh sochti hai ke aap busy hain ya aapko koi farak nahi padta. Uska jawab aapko batayega ke woh aapki feelings ki kadar karti hai ya nahi. Agar woh ignore kare ya aapko "zyada sochne wala" kahein, to aap samajh lijiye ke woh ehmiyat nahi deti. Phir aap naye doston par dhyan de sakte hain.

Woh banda jo aapka sachha dost ho, woh aapki baat samjhega. Agar nahi, to yeh bhi ek jawab hai. Aapne kuch galat nahi kiya.

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