Bhai behen cheezein chhupayen aur baap side le to kya karein
Agar aap ke bhai behen aap ki cheezein chhupa kar tang karte hain aur ghar mein baat barh jati hai, to yeh akele bardasht karna zaroori nahi. Is page mein aap baat cheet, cheezein mehfooz rakhne aur ghar walon se madad mangne ke amli tareeqay parhenge.
Mujhe ghar ke mahol mein bahut pareshani hoti hai aur mere bhai behen meri cheezein chhupa kar mujhe tang karte hain. Main unse wapis kaise le sakti hoon jab wo baat hi nahi karte aur mere baba ko bhi meri taraf se hi lagta hai?
Aap sab se pehle unse behes na karein. Jab gussa shant ho, un se seedha kahein: “Meri cheez wapis chahiye. Bina ijazat meri cheez lena theek nahi. Agar ye baar baar hua, to main baba se saamne baat karungi.” Awaz unchi na karein, kyunke phir baat cheez se hat kar jhagray par ja sakti hai.
Agar wo baat hi na karein, to apni zaroori cheezen ek band box, pouch ya almirah mein rakhein. Documents, paise aur qeemti cheezen kisi bharosemand buzurg ke paas mehfooz jagah par rakhein. Unki cheez chhupa kar badla na lein, warna masla aur barh sakta hai.
Baba se alag waqt mein shanti se kahein: “Baba, meri cheezen baar baar gayab hoti hain aur mujhe bura lagta hai. Mujhe aap se insaaf chahiye, ilzaam nahi.” Agar wo aap ki baat na sunen, to ammi, khala, phupi ya kisi ghar ke buzurg se kahein ke dono taraf ki baat saamne baith kar sunen.
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