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Finding joy when children live far away
Javed sahib, it's completely natural to feel a sense of emptiness when your children move far away and your home feels quieter. Many Pakistani parents experience thi
When Your Sister Creates Problems at Home
It's incredibly tough when a family member's actions constantly disturb your peace, especially when you feel caught in the middle. Many people in Pakistan face simil
When Parents and Your Career Dreams Don't Match
It's completely normal for parents and children to have different ideas about career paths, especially in Pakistan where certain professions like CSS hold great resp
When Your Husband Gives You the Silent Treatment
Maria, it takes a lot of courage to talk about something so difficult and painful. When your husband stops talking to you for days after an issue, it creates a heavy
When you feel guilty about prayers and hijab
It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and guilty when your personal feelings about religious practices don't quite match your family's expectations. Many young
My Study Visa Was Refused and I Feel Like a Failure
It's natural to feel devastated when your plans for studying abroad don't work out, especially after your parents invested so much. Many young people experience stro
My Parents Seem To Prefer My Younger Brother
Feeling like your parents prefer a sibling can be a deeply painful and confusing experience. Many people in Pakistan, especially those with brothers, share these fee
Get Your Sleep Back on Track
Amna, it's really common to get stuck in a cycle of late-night phone use and then not being able to sleep. This can make mornings tough and cause stress with family,
Feeling Unheard by Your Parents? Ways to Connect
Danish, it's completely normal to feel like your parents don't listen or understand you, especially when you're a teenager. Many young people in Pakistan experience
When Family Pressures You About Not Having Children
Hina, we hear how much pain and pressure you're under right now. Feeling like a failure because of something so personal and sensitive is incredibly tough, and we wa
Coping with the Loss of Your Ammi
Nazia, we are truly sorry to hear about your mother’s passing. It is incredibly difficult to lose someone so central to your life, and your feelings of emptiness and
How to Balance Family Support and Your Own Needs
Irfan, it's incredibly common in Pakistan to feel the weight of supporting your extended family, especially as an elder sibling. Balancing these responsibilities wit
Moving Past Shame After Khula
Samina, it takes incredible courage to go through a khula, and it's heartbreaking to hear you're now facing such intense judgment and shame from your family and neig
Feeling Lonely After Moving to a New City?
Moving to a new city for your job is a huge step, Zainab, and it's completely normal to feel lonely when you're far from family and don't know anyone yet. Many peopl
Parents Upset About Failed Test? How to Cope
It's incredibly tough when you feel like you've disappointed your parents, especially after a big exam. Many young people in Pakistan face immense pressure to pursue
When Your Husband Shouts and Controls All the Money
It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time, and feeling trapped and scared is a heavy burden to carry. It's important to know that these feelings are
Feeling Lost in Your In-Laws' Home?
It sounds incredibly difficult to feel like you're losing yourself and have no privacy after five years of marriage. Many women in Pakistan face similar challenges w
When Parents Push for Marriage
Sana, it's completely understandable to feel stressed and suffocated when your parents are pushing you for marriage. This is a very common challenge many young peopl
Is It Normal To Lose Friends After Getting Married?
Omar, it's completely understandable to feel this way. Many people experience shifts in their friendships after marriage, and what you're feeling is quite common.
Jab Husband Aapki Baton Ko Samajh Na Paaye
Fariha, aap akeli nahin hain jo aisa mehsoos karti hain. Jab aap pareshan hoti hain aur aapke shohar sirf 'chill karo' ya 'sab theek ho jayega' kehte hain, toh yeh b
Liking Someone at University and Confused About Relationships
Danish, it's completely normal to feel this way. Liking someone at university and feeling confused about how to approach them, especially with questions about relati
My husband yells at me, what can I do?
It sounds incredibly difficult to be in a situation where you're constantly scared. Please know that your husband yelling at you is not your fault, and it's not some
Feeling Like a Bad Wife Because of Anger
Shabana, it's completely normal to feel this way sometimes. Many women experience guilt and frustration when they get angry with their husbands, especially when it's
When your brother tries to undermine you in front of family
It's incredibly painful when a family member, especially a brother, constantly tries to diminish you in front of others. This kind of dynamic can deeply affect your

