Kya Therapy Pakistan Mein Kaam Karti Hai? Sunne Se Masle Kam Ya Zyada?
Is page par hum aapke sawaal ka jawab denge ke kya therapy (sunne) se masle kam hote hain ya barhte hain. Hum Pakistan ke haalaat mein therapy ki afadiyat aur western approach ki hadood par bhi baat karenge.
Kya sunne se masle kam hote hain ya aur barhte hain? Mujhe lagta hai ke theories aur western approach hamaare haalaat par fit nahi hotin, pehle ek dant se kaam ho jaata tha. Aur jab koi apna masla share karta hai to sabko lagne lagta hai ke unhe bhi wohi masla hai.
Aap ke sawaal ka jawab yeh hai: sunne se masle kam bhi hote hain aur barhte bhi, yeh sab par mauqa par depend karta hai. Aap ke dard ko samajhna aur sunna, aap ko alone nahi chhor deta. Lekin agar aapko lagta hai ke theories aur western approaches aap par fit nahi hote, to yeh aap ke liye important hai ke aap apne aap ko samajhne ka tareeqa dhoond lein jo aap ke liye meaningful ho.
Aap ke dard ko samajhne ka tareeqa
- Apne khud ke saath honeste hoiyan — aap ke dard ko ignore mat karein. Agar aapko lagta hai ke kuch galat hai, to yeh pehla qadam hai ke aap iske baare mein sochne lagein.
- Apne aap ko time dein — har cheez ka apna apna time hota hai. Aapko apne aap ko samajhne aur apne dard ko samajhne ke liye time chahiye ho sakta hai.
- Apne aap ko alag tarteeb mein dekhiye — agar aapko lagta hai ke kuch cheezein aap ke liye kam helpful hain, to aap apne aap ko alag tarteeb mein dekhiye. Kuch cheezein aapke liye kaam kar sakte hain jo dusron ke liye nahi.
Dusron ke saath share karne ki baat
Jab aap apne masle share karte hain, to aapko yeh bhi sochna chahiye ke kaun si cheezein aap share kar rahe hain aur kaun si cheezein aap chupaye rehna chahte hain. Har kisi ke liye har cheez share karna zaroori nahi hai. Aap apne aap ko bhi samajh sakte hain ke aapko kis se kya share karna chahiye aur kis se nahi.
Aapke dard ko samajhna aur usse nikalna mushkil hai, lekin aap yeh kar sakte hain. Aapko apne aap ko samajhne ka tareeqa dhoondna chahiye jo aap ke liye meaningful ho. Aur dusron ke saath share karte waqt, aapko yeh bhi sochna chahiye ke aapki baat kaun sune aur kaun nahi.
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